Posts Tagged: goal setting

Three words that strike fear in the heart of a hairstylist.

I have the pleasure of spending most of my days at our beauty school with some of the most amazing people in the world: cosmetology students. We call them Future Professionals, a term Paul Mitchell School’s pioneered more than a decade ago. During a recent professional development class I taught, we talked about the service cycle and some of the things that can make it successful. “A great cut,” responded one Future Professional. “An awesome blow-dry and style,” responded another. “What about great communication?” I asked. Met with quizzical looks, I continued my line of questions. “Do you guys talk to your guests about services we offer that they aren’t there for? What about the products you’re using on them – do you talk to you guest about them?” No one was talking. “How about rebooking and recommending products – you’re doing that, right?” The anxiety in the room was palpable. Since performing these tasks during a service is part of the service and education experience, I was a bit concerned that they weren’t engaging in these important steps and wanted to get to the bottom of their reluctance. “Why aren’t you guys doing these basic things, guys?” I looked around the room and finally someone spoke up. “I don’t like when people tell me no.”

Fear of rejection is a common fear and is the most potent and distressing of every day events, according to psychologists, and is experienced in friendships, romantic relationships, and in the workplace. It’s no wonder After all, most of us associate the word no with rejection, and who likes to be rejected? But statistically speaking, you have a 50/50 chance that the answer will be yes and in our industry, as in countless others, yes = income. I’ll give you some real world examples of places where a yes answer would add dollars to a business’s bottom line:

At the register at Old Navy: Cashier asks, “Would you like to save 15% on your purchase today by opening an Old Navy card?” If the person says no – no big deal. If the person says yes and gets approved – they have an open line of credit and are more likely to make purchases. #makingmoney

At the register at Barnes & Noble: Cashier asks, “Would you like to get valuable coupons by sharing your email address with us?” If the person says no – no big deal. If the person says yes, they receive coupons encourage them to come to the store and spend money. #making money

At McDonald’s: Cashier asks, “Would you like to make that a large for just $2.00 more?” If the person says no – they’ll live longer. Ha ha. If the person says yes, McDonald’s just made $2.00 more than they would have made had the cashier not asked. #makingsensenow

Okay, now I want you to imagine the financial ramifications to each of the companies I used in the example above if the add-on questions were never asked. Old Navy is owned by Gap, Inc., and according to their Annual Shareholder’s report their net sales for 2012 were $15.7 billion. McDonald’s? $6.5 billion. Barnes & Noble? $6.8 billion. A huge percentage of the sales that occur in those companies come from their front line people asking those important, revenue generating, questions. And, in addition, customers expect to be asked to “add-on” to whatever it is they’re buying; they won’t be surprised or offended if you ask. In fact, if you leave off that important add-on question, some might wonder why they weren’t asked!

This week set a goal to ask at least one customer per day an add-on question – one that will increase your ticket, your retail, or your rebooking. Then, share your results with me here. I’d love to hear your success stories!

Personal Mission Statements: Got Yours?

Personal mission statements go hand and hand with goal setting as both offer us the opportunity to begin with the end in mind. Why are they important? The same reason why goals are important – they give us purpose and they provide a framework in which to work. Don’t have a personal mission statement yet? Use the following questions to get you started on what can be a fun (and revealing) journey.

  • Who are you? Write down some words that you would use to describe you (kind, funny, outgoing, driven), then write down some words that others would use to describe you (innovative, inspirational, focused, patient).
  • What do you do? Or, what do you want to do? Write it down.
  • When are you doing what you’re doing? Now? In the future? Write it down.
  • Where are you doing what you’re doing? At home? At work? In your marriage? In your family? With friends? The public? At a homeless shelter? A dog rescue? Visualize and write it down.
  • Why are you doing what you’re doing? To create world peace? To inspire others? Visualize, clarify, and write it down.

Okay, so when you’re finished, you’re going to have a bunch of words, ideas, and sentences that you’re going to have to put together. Don’t let it overwhelm you – I’ll share an example of how my personal mission statement evolved from a page of scribbled notes to this (and, p.s., it’s still not finished):

I am a mom, a wife, a daughter, a sister, a friend. My legacy will be one of personal integrity, hard work, enthusiasm for life, and love and service for others. At work and at home, with family and with friends, my interactions with others will bring real and lasting personal value. I will achieve this through meaningful conversations, heartfelt listening, genuine care, and God-inspired servitude.

It’s still a work in progress, for sure, but I can use it as a guide (or, reminder when things get crazy) to make sure that what I’m putting my energy into every day is in alignment with what I want for my life and for the lives of those around me.

Okay, now it’s your turn. This weekend, grab a pen and paper, brew a pot of coffee, and get your personal mission statement started. Remember that it’s a living document and will change so don’t stress if it doesn’t turn out the way you want it your first time around. I’d love to hear how you make out though; so, if you get it finished, feel free to share it here!

I love big !#$@%

“I like thinking big. If you’re going to be thinking anything, you might as well think big.”

I’m talking about goals, you dirty rascal.

Don’t be intimidated by other people’s big &%$#^. Here are 3 easy steps to help YOU get bigger #@%$! starting today:

  • Daydream I’m not sure how you made it through boring history lectures in school, but I can sure tell you how I did; I daydreamed. That boy I was crushing on? In my daydreams we were already a couple. Those ten pounds I had to lose? I could see myself running, working out at the gym, and then parading around in my bikini all tan and fit. I may have even lost weight while I was sitting there daydreaming, I was that good at daydreaming. I visualized everything from the lighting, to the smell of the air, the surroundings – I didn’t miss a detail. Little did I know, I was actually laying the groundwork for what would help me achieve my future goals – beginning with the end in mind. So, today, dream.
  • Make a list  Based on the things you dreamed about (the fabulous career, the awesome house, the amazing relationship, the fat bank account, the skinny thighs) make a list of which of the dreams you’d like to make real first. Once you’ve done that, you can move on to the next step – creating the roadmap to get to your destination.
  • Map it Thanks to Siri, we don’t have to think about anything, “Siri, get me directions to Pizza Hut.” But if our dreams (which are now our goals) are our destination, Siri is not going to help us get there. Okay, now that you’ve all asked Siri how to get to your goals (lol) think of it this way, if your goal is to lose ten pounds, how do you lose ten pounds? You do an hour of cardio five times a week. You drink eight eight ounce glasses of water a day. You don’t eat McDonald’s. You eat more leafy greens, fruits, and proteins. You lift weights. See how easy this is? You are creating the map to your destination (without Siri’s help). #booyah

“If you don’t know where you are going,
you’ll end up someplace else.”
Yogi Berra

So, go out and get some big $#%@^ of your own, and make sure you tell us about it here. We love big @#$%&.